April 23,  2004

       The birthday boy aka Himself, decided not only would we attend last weekend's art exhibit, but that He would treat himself to a painting. It's beautiful!  A total departure from a lot of the art around the house, but i've noticed that His taste seems to be changing a bit - He's heading into very strong-coloured 'not quite' abstracts.  

      Speaking of which, my painting quest has been a bit shaky lately, due to the fact that i'm being shown different techniques, such as using a palette knife, and i'm not - well.... not taking to these new ideas like a duck to water.  In fact, what i've been dragging home is truly, truly bad.  Sigh.  But i persevere.

      Anyway, the rest of Himself's birthday was spent going out for a nice brunch, going back to the gallery to show His daughter the new painting, and then coming back home to what He thought was going to be a quiet afternoon.  We knew better.

      Sure enough, at 4 p.m. and right on time - a lot of people started showing up at the house.  And i'm happy to report, He was very surprised, and i think very touched, that everyone came to wish Him well, along with sharing some of their favourite foods and beverages.  It was a lovely day, and a lovely way to start off the week.

      Monday found me sitting in a dermatologist's office being told that the only thing she can think of to help my hair is rogaine.  Ick.  She said (while sporting a thick mass of dark curls herself) that as much as 50% of the female population are now suffering from some level of female pattern baldness, and they don't know why and they don't know how to help really.  And if i commit to rogaine i will 'most likely' preserve what i have, and possibly even grow some back.  A less than 25% chance though.

      And using the product is a lifetime commitment.  One bottle per month, at $50.00 per bottle.  ($10.00 per bottle in the States - but then i'd need a 'dealer'.)  And if you stop, within three months you lose all the benefits.  Sounds like a lot of work for not enough gain.  Himself continues to be baffled that any of this bothers me at all.  

      So THEN, after that little tidbit of information, i go back for round two, different specialist - and for my eyes this time.  Just a check-up - but a check up that confirmed what i've been avoiding - i have hit the age of bifocals.  i truly am a masochist.  Any smart person would have just put off going for the check-up ... but noooooooooo.  *i* have to do the right thing and go regularly.

       The worst part of this is that my eyes (while having been visited by the wrinkle-sprinkle fairy) are not really all that bad.  i do need glasses to help with distance, especially while driving.  And the separate reading glasses do help for reading really tiny print - or when i'm on the laptop at work.  But neither are a must - i can still see life around me moderately well.

       So why do i need bifocals??? Because of the art.  Go figure. i can't look up at something, then down quickly to sketch it, and repeat, repeat, because there are two different needs.  One to see the distance, the other to put it on paper.   It's all or nothing - no glasses, or the bifocals.  

      So in spite of the wrinkle-sprinkle fairy, in spite of the constant computer needs at work and at home - it was my art ... my hobby, my zen! .... that took me down.  That underlined the fact that i'm closer to 50 than i am 40.  Okay, so i'm not there yet, but that's not the point.

      And then i joined the 8-week get into the best shape of your life fitness challenge at work.  Heh.  No gain without pain?  Well at least i won't see the pain - just feel it.

      What was i thinking? 

                           

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