January 28,  2003

       Another bizarre event in my life.

       i outed myself to my sister last night.  Totally.  Not the little hints i had previously given - the whole enchallada! (sp)

      Well, she kind of outed herself to me about her life (not the same as mine), so i figured share and share alike right?

      i think she was a tad surprised when i told her.  Her first reaction was typical of the vanilla world, so i explained about the D/s - that we aren't just into BDSM.  i'm not sure she fully understood, but i also shared the address to this journal, so perhaps by reading it will become more clear. And i explained things about the public scening and our fit in it - and my aversion to getting naked in public.  

      It was so liberating to speak frankly with her!  Now i don't have to worry about hiding the cuffs when she comes to visit - i don't have to worry about slipping in front of her about anything.  It's so nice to be able to speak about my life openly and frankly.  And she didn't judge me - didn't say i was wrong.  Just accepted that i knew what i was doing, and that's cool.

      Perfect.

      Sometimes i think if all us kinksters just stood up and outed ourselves to the entire world, eventually "they" would get it, and "we" could get on with our lives in peace.

     Something to think about.  i mean, why should we have to hide?  We aren't doing anything wrong.

     “Have no fear of perfection - you'll never reach it.”
--Salvador Dali      

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